This was first published on January 1, 2015. While it isn’t quite time for a New Year’s Resolution yet, this is a worthwhile goal to remind myself of yet again!
“It’s better to light a candle than to curse the darkness.”
(Motto of a group called “The Christophers” founded in 1945)
The quote above is attributed to many people. Just Google it and you’ll see what I mean! It’s been used by former first ladies, the head of Amnesty International, and others. The oldest record of the entire quote anyone can find is in the paperwork created when “The Christophers” was founded by Father James Keller.
The fact that this statement has been quoted over and over says something. Something powerful. And it perfectly sums up my focus for the year 2015. It’s easy to rage on social media about things that annoy us. We argue with one another in the “cyberworld” really well. But it doesn’t fix things. And it tends to leave the individuals involved in the argument all worked up.
Maybe it’s just me. Maybe others get involved in the argument and then walk away, never to think of the issue again. Maybe. But I doubt it.
So my goal for this year is simple. Whenever I can, where ever I can I am going to “light a candle”. It may take the form of a financial donation or a shoulder to cry on or educating myself on a particular cause and then sharing what I know with others. The actions may vary, but the purpose will always remain the same. I’m tired of the arguing. I’m tired of watching people make ugly assumptions about total strangers they are arguing with online. I’m tired of the stress and grumpy attitude that tends to accompany that kind of negative engagement. So I’m choosing, in 2015, to be a “candlelighter”, for lack of a better term. It is my intent to brighten up my own little corner of the world one candle at a time.